What's your type of guy/gal?

I know it's a weird and odd question but just wondering because I like older guys, maybe a year or two. and I like the 'bad boys' type. Weird?

Hm... This is an odd question... XD
I like the... Nice, sporty type. Sometimes smart as well.

This feels like a personal question... DD: But I like boys that are older than me, not to old though! About 1 year older, like you said. And I also like a boy that is really kind...

XD I like guys that are [at most] a year older than me, but I don't mind someone a couple of months younger 'cause I'm 3rd eldest in my year, a guy that's kind and cute and true to himself! Yeah, it's same old, same old, I know

*coughcough* I don't really have a certain type. I know what I don't like, though. I don't like jerks. I don't like idiots. I don't like players. I don't like liars, cheaters, or pompous, stuck-up jerks.

That being said, I don't really judge by outer appearances. I like smart, decent, intelligent guys who is okay with just hanging out at my house, who can hold a deep conversation, and who my friends don't absolutely hate. I've absolutely hated some of my friends' boyfriends before, and the relationships never lasted long.

But, I'm not really all that focused on relationships right now. 14 years old, and all. 8D Real dating starts after the guy has his license and can actually take you out on dates without soliciting a ride from his mother. xD

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But, I'm not really all that focused on relationships right now. 14 years old, and all. 8D Real dating starts after the guy has his license and can actually take you out on dates without soliciting a ride from his mother. xD

Really? When I was... 11(In grade 6) there was a girl and a boy, same name!(These names are fake) Adrian and Adrian. Adrian and Adrian were kissing. French!

Well adding onto mine. What I don't like now. I don't like really dumb boys. I mean I like helping but not all the time. I don't like stalkers...

AlisaElric0150 wrote:

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But, I'm not really all that focused on relationships right now. 14 years old, and all. 8D Real dating starts after the guy has his license and can actually take you out on dates without soliciting a ride from his mother. xD

Really? When I was... 11(In grade 6) there was a girl and a boy, same name!(These names are fake) Adrian and Adrian. Adrian and Adrian were kissing. French!

Just because you can kiss doesn't mean you're capable of a real relationship. That's why most middle-school, and, heck, most HIGH-SCHOOL relationships don't last very long. Sure, some of them do. But that's rare, and it takes mature people who are able to do more than suck each others faces off..

Eternal Silence wrote:

AlisaElric0150 wrote:

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But, I'm not really all that focused on relationships right now. 14 years old, and all. 8D Real dating starts after the guy has his license and can actually take you out on dates without soliciting a ride from his mother. xD

Really? When I was... 11(In grade 6) there was a girl and a boy, same name!(These names are fake) Adrian and Adrian. Adrian and Adrian were kissing. French!

Just because you can kiss doesn't mean you're capable of a real relationship. That's why most middle-school, and, heck, most HIGH-SCHOOL relationships don't last very long. Sure, some of them do. But that's rare, and it takes mature people who are able to do more than suck each others faces off..

No, no... They were actually dating... It was creepy and also the boy Adrian, he was a stalker which made it even more scarier. Also the girl Adrian is a witch who is desperate for attention... Even so, they were dating. I know what you mean though.

It's a title. You can say you're dating without really dating; and it can FEEL like you're dating. But...

Bah. I could get into a long-winded discussion about semantics and the folly of puppy love. But I won't. 8]

Eternal Silence wrote:

*coughcough* I don't really have a certain type. I know what I don't like, though. I don't like jerks. I don't like idiots. I don't like players. I don't like liars, cheaters, or pompous, stuck-up jerks.

That being said, I don't really judge by outer appearances. I like smart, decent, intelligent guys who is okay with just hanging out at my house, who can hold a deep conversation, and who my friends don't absolutely hate. I've absolutely hated some of my friends' boyfriends before, and the relationships never lasted long.

But, I'm not really all that focused on relationships right now. 14 years old, and all. 8D Real dating starts after the guy has his license and can actually take you out on dates without soliciting a ride from his mother. xD

I like this post.

My guy can be any guy who is nice, intelligent, chill, a bit sarcastic, tall, can make me laugh (not a hard thing), plays an instrument/sings, blue eyes, German background (LOVELOVELOVE), and doesn't mind that I'm into anime and cosplaying. Oh, I usually tend to go for guys who are a little older than I.

I'm focused but not focused on relationships right now, because I'm a junior in high school (BIG BAD ELEVENTH GRADEEE~). And I would like to at least had one relationship in high school. >.>; XD But whatever.

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Just because you can kiss doesn't mean you're capable of a real relationship. That's why most middle-school, and, heck, most HIGH-SCHOOL relationships don't last very long. Sure, some of them do. But that's rare, and it takes mature people who are able to do more than suck each others faces off..

Agreed.

I agree with every single thing you said, Ballad, minus the cosplay part. If you know me, you know that I'm pretty light-hearted. I like to joke, and I like it when people make me laugh. But there's times to be serious, too. There needs to be a decent balance.

I'm really, really sarcastic at times, and a good sense of humor is a plus. If I'm just joking around, it bugs me when people get offended and spin things wayyyy out of proportion.

If you're fun to be around, I'll want to be around you. Simple as that. ;] That goes for guys and girls as friends, too.

I don't mind the age part at all. In highschool it's weird, but once I'm in college I won't care. (My bro is dating a girl four years older than him.)

Let's see my perfect guy would be...
Someone who I can poke fun at and he will poke fun back at me.
Someone who is smart and is somewhat logical.
Someone who hasn't commited a crime.
Someone who will compliment my drawings and tell me I did a good job on a test/prodject sometimes.
Someone who will not care that I'm in the anime club or the fact I'm a super geek when it comes to some PC stuff.
Someone who will pay their half of the bill.
Someone who thinks a date can be just playing video games and eating pizza/chinese at my place, instead of waisting a lot of our college funds.
Someone that doesn't wear their pants to their knees and lets their boxers show.

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Just because you can kiss doesn't mean you're capable of a real relationship. That's why most middle-school, and, heck, most HIGH-SCHOOL relationships don't last very long. Sure, some of them do. But that's rare, and it takes mature people who are able to do more than suck each others faces off..

Couldn't agree anymore. Some Most guys/ girls want the title or to do inappropriate things that I shouldn't mention.

12kittycat1214 wrote:

I don't mind the age part at all. In highschool it's weird, but once I'm in college I won't care. (My bro is dating a girl four years older than him.)

Let's see my perfect guy would be...
Someone who I can poke fun at and he will poke fun back at me.
Someone who is smart and is somewhat logical.
Someone who hasn't commited a crime.
Someone who will compliment my drawings and tell me I did a good job on a test/prodject sometimes.
Someone who will not care that I'm in the anime club or the fact I'm a super geek when it comes to some PC stuff.
Someone who will pay their half of the bill.
Someone who thinks a date can be just playing video games and eating pizza/chinese at my place, instead of waisting a lot of our college funds.
Someone that doesn't wear their pants to their knees and lets their boxers show.

O_o Okay that's a lot like me... I didn't really mention it though. Creepy...

That's what I like about my magnet program: I'm a geek. There's no getting around it. But so is everyone else. ;] I don't have to worry about dumbing myself down for someone else (which I wouldn't do, anyways).

That was a problem before, though. Hope that doesn't make me sound stuck-up. O.o

Interesting post. But, heck, I'll answer the question. I was into "bad boys" until just recently. My ex (if you could actually call us 'dating') was a bad boy and I got in a lot of trouble from teachers and stuff sometimes because of him....

But, (and HM obsession coming out) I'd love a guy like Luke (minus the whole somewhat pompous part) I'd like a guy who can make me laugh so hard that until I bust a gut. A guy who is sweet and can have a conversation without talking about Megan Fox, Taylor Swift, other hot girls ect. Blue eyes is always something i've loved (but I'm not that picky) And someone who could be my shoulder to cry on. Someone my friends don't hate for sure...

I dunno... Not really into dating right now- maybe highschool.

Well although it's kinda personal but I guess I like the kind of boys which are funny [realy funny XD], Kind, friendly, true and ofcorce like me for who I am!

I was in love with many funny boys and I liked to have many boyfriends but since when I was about 8 years old [yonge!!!] I dated a boy for 1 or 1 1/2 school years, HE GIVEN ME A DIOMAND RING!! But when I shown my parants they said to give it back cus it was "expencive".

Now, I do get attracted to start asking boys out but I don't want to get to MAD. So I am now trying to find a FUNNY, kind, sweet, true and like me boy!

well..for me i want a girl..who can be there in times of need..my sorrow,sadness during my most biggest battles in my life..*kinda deep*

i don't really prefer the looks,the style but the attitude and the heart..and the brain..maybe the money XD

Gamer Gal wrote:

Well although it's kinda personal but I guess I like the kind of boys which are funny [realy funny XD], Kind, friendly, true and ofcorce like me for who I am!

I was in love with many funny boys and I liked to have many boyfriends but since when I was about 8 years old [yonge!!!] I dated a boy for 1 or 1 1/2 school years, HE GIVEN ME A DIOMAND RING!! But when I shown my parants they said to give it back cus it was "expencive".

Now, I do get attracted to start asking boys out but I don't want to get to MAD. So I am now trying to find a FUNNY, kind, sweet, true and like me boy!

LOL at the diamond ring. Where did he got it?

Gamer Gal wrote:

I dated a boy for 1 or 1 1/2 school years, HE GIVEN ME A DIOMAND RING!! But when I shown my parants they said to give it back cus it was "expencive".

Cubic zirconium, or an actual diamond? They look alike, but the difference is in authenticity.

Eternal Silence wrote:

Gamer Gal wrote:

I dated a boy for 1 or 1 1/2 school years, HE GIVEN ME A DIOMAND RING!! But when I shown my parants they said to give it back cus it was "expencive".

Cubic zirconium, or an actual diamond? They look alike, but the difference is in authenticity.

how exotic!

clairexcliff wrote:

Eternal Silence wrote:

Gamer Gal wrote:

I dated a boy for 1 or 1 1/2 school years, HE GIVEN ME A DIOMAND RING!! But when I shown my parants they said to give it back cus it was "expencive".

Cubic zirconium, or an actual diamond? They look alike, but the difference is in authenticity.

how exotic!

Whaen I shown my parents they looked at it and it was ingraved inside the ring, so from what I know it is real. It was shaped as a heart ^x^

Gamer Gal wrote:

clairexcliff wrote:

Eternal Silence wrote:

Gamer Gal wrote:

I dated a boy for 1 or 1 1/2 school years, HE GIVEN ME A DIOMAND RING!! But when I shown my parants they said to give it back cus it was "expencive".

Cubic zirconium, or an actual diamond? They look alike, but the difference is in authenticity.

how exotic!

Whaen I shown my parents they looked at it and it was ingraved inside the ring, so from what I know it is real. It was shaped as a heart ^x^

how romantic!

That's really sweet!

I got two dosen roses from a guy once when I was in 5th grade. It was sweet because I had just gotten the part I wanted in the school play. He showed up the next day, set them on my desk and later he told me he was the one who gave them to me.

Ahh, the cool stuff that happened.

The most I got was a confession and my sister got Yugioh Cards, chocolate and a card.

You guys and your romances.

That reminds me of so many things and of how much I've changed. Now if I were to get chocolates from a guy I'd look at him weirdly and probably try to avoid him.

Once a bunch of guys were calling me over to try to get me to talk with another guy, but I didn't. I was too creeped out.